Monday, October 8, 2012

Deployment

Daddy snuggles :)
 As you all know from facebook, Brandon left for his deployment yesterday. It was a sad day. The longest time we have spend apart is 6 weeks at a time, so 6 months is a big difference. It is nice to have school and Audrey to keep me busy though.



We waited at the terminal for about 4 hours before they called Brandon's flight for boarding. We got to sit with him the whole time, so that was a big plus. Sitting there waiting was the worst part....knowing that the goodbyes were coming. Brandon hides his emotions very well...he knew how sad I was and breaking down would make it worse. Bless his heart, he is a great fella ;)

I <3 my airman
This is how I try to look at the time apart. There is no sense in pouting about it. Deployment comes with the territory. We knew it was coming and prepared as much as you can for something like this. Complaining about the situation is not going to make it better, in fact it will only make me miserable. It could always be worse! The air force is relatively safe and it is only 6 months. It could be much longer. SO, I plan to make the most out of this time and be as positive as I can. It is selfish of me to whine and complain when Brandon is the one sacrificing so much.



I have a few goals that I plan to work on while he is gone....

1) Get in awesome shape so we can compete in Tough Mudder in May
2)Get our home decorated how I want it....been slacking since we moved while I was very pregnant.
3) Get rid of the excess. Our storage room in the basement of our building is FULL of crap. Time to get rid of the stuff we aren't using and get organized.

But for now, I am allowing myself ONE day of full out lazy complete with ice-cream in bed :)

2 comments:

  1. Having been through it from Brandon's side, I can say with authority that he's missing you and Audrey like mad about now. Hopefully he will be busy while deployed, focusing on work will help the time go by. Slack time is slow time. On the bright side, Skype and FB will keep you in contact and until you head back to Iowa you'll be in nearly the same time zone. When I deployed, back in the dark ages ;), with the exception of a hand full of 10 min $100+ phone calls, all our communication was with snail mail. 4-6 weeks round trip was the norm. I know deployments are hard, that hasn't changed, but you'll be able to stay and touch much better than Vicki and I could. Love you guys!

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  2. Thank goodness you are one of the military wives who realize complaining about it won't make it easier, or get you more friends. =] good luck!

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